Must See TV

Yay! One of our favorite TV show's won an Emmy! If you haven't watched M0dern Family, you really must. I think it's hilarious. Maybe it's just my freakish sense of humor but I really laugh out loud with almost every episode.
My mouth is curling at the corners just thinking that the new season will start soon. :)

Peek at Lily's Room - In Progress

I came home last Saturday after work (I work every 3rd Saturday - GREAT schedule for a nurse) and Jeff had moved the old bed out of Lily's Room and put together the crib. I was so surprised and immediately moved to put together some of the other furniture and arrange the room. So every day since, we have done a little more to prepare Lily's room. I took this picture in the middle of last week and have since hung some things on the walls, scooted things around and bought a couple more small things. I am really loving it so far and I know that it will be such a great place for our little girl to rest her head.

Of course when it comes closer to time to bring her home, we will wash and iron everything and get it looking perfect. For now, we are in the midst of another Lily project - updating our home study and paperwork for the 4th time. Our immigration approval expires Jan. 8th and we have to receive our referral, travel and be home before it expires. Not gonna happen so we are pulling everything together now so that we can make sure it is in the office where it needs to be 90 days before our expiration (the max time it is supposed to take for renewal). I don't want there to be anything at all that might delay us from holding Lily in our arms once we see her sweet face and if our paperwork is not current, there will be no travel for Jeff and Nicole. Not gonna let that happen. One good thing about all this paperwork stuff is that we get to meet with our social worker again and Jeff and I get to show her Lily's nursery :). Last time she visited us, it was a bland extra bedroom/storage room. Now it's a baby girl haven. Love it.

Treinta

Referrals are out for this month!! They covered 5 days of LIDs which gives us 30 left before they reach our magical date - June 14, 2006. Right now they have referred through May 15, 2006 and are averaging about 3-8 days of LIDs per referral month. I THINK we are in line for a referral in January but what I'm telling people is "any time between December and March for referral and between February and April for travel to China". Hopefully that will cover all bases but, if we have learned anything over the past several years in this process, it is that NOTHING is predictable.

I am excited about 5 days being referred this month but in September we are only expecting 2 days to be covered. I am saying this to remind myself not to be disappointed when it happens and just as fare warning that there won't be much progress until maybe October.

For now, we will celebrate these 5 days gone forever. Lots of people are crying tears of joy as they see their baby's faces for the first time. And I can't help but to continue my daydreaming of the day that it will be Jeff and I sharing tears over our little one. It will be soon. She is waiting. We are ready.

House in Chaos

We have really been organizationally challenged over these past few weeks. We had carpet installed the first week of August and it has left us with stuff EVERYWHERE. I am definitely not the most organized person in the world but this is crazy. I think the problem is that we are trying not to bring anything back in to the house which we don't need. So this has made for about 3 visits by the big truck that picks up donations around here...and we still have enough crap for at least one or two more visits.

From 2010-08-08 carpet

The good news in this is that Lily's room is coming together a little bit. The rocking chair was delivered and I am ready to put some more furniture together just as soon as Jeff takes apart the bed that is plop in the middle of the floor in there. I told some friends that I was working on the nursery and one asked me how long we had left. I said about 6 months-ish and they made a comment about how I am preparing the nursery so early. Let me just say that after 5 years of waiting, preparing 6 months ahead is like trying to do all the work for a new baby in the last trimester. Not to mention that I want it to be PERFECT.

From 2010-08-08 carpet

And there is still a long way to go before we can claim perfection. Jeff had to cut the bottoms off all the doors last week since this carpet is about 1/2 inch taller than the previous threadbare stuff.

From 2010-08-08 carpet

Even the guest bedroom is in chaos. I guess we better clear it out before anyone comes to visit.

At least we now have a good foundation. $6000 worth of carpet. It feels squishy under my feet. Let the clean sweep begin.

Weekend Trip to Nashville

A couple weekends ago, Jeff and I got in our happy little Honda and flew the coop for Nashville. We are actually only about 3 hours from there so it made for a good little overnighter. Our reason for going was to see my FAVE band, the Indigo Girls, who were playing at the botanical gardens there. Jeff isn't a huge fan but it sucked it up just to humor me. It turned out to be a great trip.


We got to the park about 2 1/2 hrs before the show to guarantee ourselves a good seat on the lawn. We spread out our trusty blankie, got out the sandwiches we had picked up and made ourselves a picnic. It was hotter than crap but it was so pretty that we didn't let that ruin our time.





I thought for a minute that Jeff might actually close his eyes and take a nap while we waited.


He was a super sport, even when he made jokes about the people's dance moves. Of course we daydreamed about being able to take Lily to the park for times like this and we are just sure that she would have loved it too as there were lots of kids running around in the grass. Soon...

You can see we had a great view of the crooners... If you click on the picture below, it will take you to a little video of their most popular song (and Jeff's favorite), Galileo. Try not to dance out of your seat. :)

Un-rant

I had a big rant of a blog post written out and then I chickened out just as my finger was on the "post" button. I am trying really hard to be positive these days. As I approach motherhood, I want to let go of a lot of the bitterness that has seized me in the past few years. This adoption wait on top of the infertility/miscarriage period has been so incredibly difficult and has shown me so much about myself and those around me. I know who I can talk to about the adoption, who will listen to me cry about it when I'm sad, who will be ecstatic with me when I talk about the fact that we are mere months from parenthood and who I just need to not talk to about it and just smile as they change the subject when I bring it up. It's ok. I'm ok with it now.

I know that I will be a mom soon and I will be able to participate in those conversations about temper tantrums and potty training...I won't just be the one in the group who sits on the sidelines speculating. I am anxious for that and I know who will meet me and Lily for playdates with their kids and who I will call for advice when I hit a wall. I want to focus on that and how amazingly fortunate I am to have some spectacular friends who share joy and sorrow with me and not on the topic of my unpublished rant post.

Geesh, it feels kinda good to stifle some of that negativity. Maybe I'm almost a grown-up.

UPDATE: It appears that I didn't actually not post that negative post. I just checked Google Reader and it was there. Hmmm...maybe I published then un-published. It's a mystery.

Life is like a box of cupcakes

Life is a little routine these days. Not that we don't have exciting adventures, like seeing Jason's awesome house for the first time and baby shopping on a continuous basis. We are just a little in the work-home-work again routine. Of course, in the midst of the summer we have to continue the summer staples in our house which are the new season of Big Brother, Design Star and the new guilty pleasure...DC Cupcakes. Take a look...

I feel like I could eat a million of them. Aren't they gorgeous?!? But really the show is not about the cupcakes (all 70+ flavors), it's about the owners of the shop and their adventures. I guess that's the new trend in TV these days...shows about cakes, cake decorating, cupcakes, cake baking and decorating challenges. I tell you what - I love 'em. Maybe it's my longing to eat every last one or maybe it's the little creative part of my brain that wants to build a fire-breathing dinosaur from rice treats and cover it with fondant. Who knows?!?

The Great Debate

Just in case you think I have a one track mind on all things baby, I am here to prove otherwise. I also do ponder such topics as world peace, the environment, peace in the Middle East, politics, religion and the Great Debate....

Team Edward or Team Jacob??

As far as I'm concerned there's no competition. Team Jacob all the way. Who cares that he is a 12 year old with an aversion to shirts?!? Rawr.

Shopping Frenzy

It is so hard for me to think about anything but Lily this week. After more than 4 years of waiting, it actually seems like we are CLOSE to seeing her face. That thought makes me feel all kinds of butterflies in my belly and makes me want to push the fast-forward button on life - just a little bit. I am trying to target this mommy-waiting energy in to something productive. Unfortunately it is also turning out to be expensive. I have made a couple purchases for the house and Lily's room and have a couple more planned for as soon as the carpet is installed (2 weeks from now).

Fortunately I haven't gone flat broke yet but I can feel it getting closer. I'm not feeling guilty though. After all this waiting, I am giving myself a license to splurge a little as long as it is in the order of making this house a home for our sweet one.

Here is the chair that Jeff and I will rock our precious bundle in, read her books about bears that talk and undoubtedly where we will fall asleep ourselves with our little one wrapped securely in our arms.
And of course an ottoman for our tootsies.

And, with less excitement but just as much necessity, I ordered a crib mattress. I read a million reviews and settled on this Sealy.

Nothing less than the best for our Lily's head to rest on.

We still need a bookshelf and some odds and ends for the nursery. I am hoping to get one of those cute ones with the cubbies where you can put pretty baskets for toys and such.

This is fun. Too much fun. :)

Countdown begins anew

This month's referrals have come out and they cover 14 days worth of LID's...that's a bunch more than recent trends of 3-6 days per month. However, it doesn't really represent a speed up because the government agency in China that issues referrals was closed for a good number of those 14 days, therefore they didn't receive family files and could just skip those days to get to ones where peeps were logged in. That really sounds like a bunch of mumbo jumbo, doesn't it?!?

Anyway...the big deal is that we can now knock off 14 whole days that were ahead of us. This leave us with only 35 days worth of LID's before our magical date of June 14, 2006. 35 days. Let me write it again. 35 DAYS!!! We could really, really see our baby's face in about 6 months. There is something so stinking sweet about that prospect. This means that we are in line to receive our referral in January-ish. Of course, I have to make the disclaimer that things change so quickly in this adventure so I am still protecting my fragile baby-dreaming heart.

For now, preparation continues for our sweet Lily to come home. Jeff and I are painting, de-cluttering, having new carpet installed in about 2 weeks, enjoying our time together and sharing our dreams of a soon-to-be family of three. Before November, we will be shuffling paperwork and appointments again trying to re-do our immigration paperwork and revise our home study for the 4th time. With all these projects, surely the next few months will fly by.

This seems so surreal right now. Years and years of dreaming might be coming down to these next few months, just half a year. Our Lily really should be born and waiting for us. The path that was paved for our destinies could be leading us together very soon.

Tale of the Popcorn Painting Adventure

There once was a man who happens to be my spouse. He loves power tools and gadgets that either make rough jobs simple or makes simple jobs rough. In this particular instance, it was the latter.

** Let me interject here that the person who invented popcorn ceilings should be dangled by his toes over shark infested waters. **

This weekend's task was to paint above mentioned ceilings which have become dull and a little spotty over the years. Of course previous experience has taught us that this job can not be done with a roller lest the popcorn comes falling down upon one's head...and worse than trying to paint popcorn is trying to repair it once painting has gone awry. So....Jeff pulled out the big guns and rented a paint sprayer from the local home improvement warehouse. Here it is:

Scary looking, isn't it?!?? But not quite as scary as the garbing that you have to do prior to pulling the trigger...

Or the plastic monster that has to throw up in your house before your ceilings can be whitened...

Nonetheless, my power tool-loving husband went at it. Attempting to conquer those popcorn ceilings with all his might.

I'm afraid the popcorn won...

:)

Family Reunion

Jeff and I had the pleasure of attending his family reunion this past weekend and got to see some of his peeps that we hadn't seen in a good while. It was nice and a good reminder of the great history of Jeff's family and the richness of his heritage. Some things that come to my mind when I think of spending time with my extended in-laws....fantastic, heart pounding singing, lots of hugging and talk about old times and people that have passed, barbecue and cream cakes, kids running around in the grass playing and catching lightning bugs.... I absolutely can't wait to introduce Lily to the family and watch them kiss her little cheeks. She will be so blessed.

Jeff and his brothers, minus one

Me and my honey bunches

Jeff and Uncle Babydoll (aka Uncle Samuel) - the last member of his mom's (Lillian's) generation - her baby brother

Reeling it in

My blogging is still sporadic. This I know. This past year has been a booger for me. So many changes in jobs, life, and mental state. I don't deal well with change (which should be evident by my blog) and it has made me feel a little out of control lately. I have lost the gumption of my diet and gained back a good amount of the weight I worked so hard to lose. I am still on orientation at work and not quite in the groove there yet. Jeff is still working out of control hours and I have lots of nights at home by myself to ponder life and existence. Sometimes I struggle with negativity and have been REALLY engaging in this struggle lately.

One of my instructors during orientation this time around said something that has stuck with me and that I am trying to remind myself of every day. He said that we are like pitchers, pouring out what's inside of us. If we are filled with nastiness and negativity then that's what we pour out. If we are filled with love, positivity and exuberance for life, then that is what flows. I am trying hard to work my way through this one and be more filled with joy and love for life than with negative thoughts and bummer-istic tendencies. But it's hard sometimes.

I am not going to make unrealistic aspirations for myself but, over the next few weeks, I would like to make a few goals.

1. Be a little more thankful for what I have. Consciously survey my blessings and pour out some joy.
2. Prioritize my health again. Exercise 2-3 times a week and cut back on this out of control eating. Go back to Weight Watchers weekly.
3. Spend some time with my family if at all possible. Brandee is so close but I haven't seen her in a while. And Jason has a new house that I haven't seen. I miss everyone.
4. Finish clearing out this house and get ready for the new carpet. If I de-clutter my house, maybe life will feel not-so-overwhelming.

That should be enough for now.

Visiting Grandpa

A couple weekends ago, Jeff and I threw ourselves in the car and met Grandpa and Susie for a day away in Gatlinburg. It was so nice to see them, even if only for a day. I hate that seeing family makes me miss them even more. I really do miss my family...really really do. I wish that distance didn't separate us from family gatherings, bbq's, card games, dropping by's to say hello. It seems like there is never enough time, enough money, a car that will take us there and back fast enough. One of my hopes for the future is that I can spend more time with those I love. That we will have more than an every two year visit over apple fritters. That I won't let so much more time pass. That Lily will know the love that is held by all of her family. Soon.

49 Days!

While this month's referrals from China were not an impressive batch, it has ticked off 5 more LID's from the ones ahead of us (see the update at the right for more stats and info). This leaves us with just 49 LID's before someone in China takes a picture of our baby and pairs it with pictures of Jeff and I. Of course we have no real concrete idea about how long this will take but I'm still hopeful that it will be just months from now...not year(s).

Since Jeff and I are hopefully winding down on our wait, we have decided to take on some pretty big projects. Isn't that smart?!? So in addition to me starting a new job and the adjustment and probation/orientation period that that involves, we are going to paint the inside of the house, have new carpet installed throughout and continue on our quest to de-junk. We have made some progress on the latter and have actually donated a ton of stuff to the local women and children's shelter. Can't you just picture some teenage boy sporting Jeff's old Shaft coat?? ;)

49 days....we can make it, can't we?

More Baby Buying

I am a super crazy shopper these days. Trying not to buy baby stuff is FUTILE I tell you. Jeff and I are doing some major spring cleaning and I spent a whole day in Lily's room last week. I was cleaning out, daydreaming and getting myself psyched for what's to come. We are going to be putting new carpet in the house and painting some of the walls (things which are way overdue in this place) and, after that nursery prep gets put in to high gear. So in preparation for that and because there was a great sale going on this weekend, I present to you some recent baby purchases.
Crib bedding...this pattern is called "Ladybug Paisley" and is actually a yellow background (same color as the walls in the nursery) with pink and green. The picture doesn't really show it well but it's super cute.

And the crib that it will be placed in. We actually ordered this yesterday and it will be delivered early next week and we will wait till the new carpet goes in before we put it together. I will make sure to document the assembly because I am SURE that Jeff might just say some 4 letter words that don't resemble his usual "jiminy cricket".

And we sprung for the mac-daddy car seat that I posted about a while back. It was on sale and I couldn't resist.

So now we have most of the absolute necessities. We are ready for Lily to come home. Like now. :)

Top 10 Reasons I Despise Wal-M@rt

What a joy it is to go to the local Wal-M@rt. It is so much fun that, after today's adventure, I am compelled to write my own "Top 10 List".

Drumroll please...

This is the TOP 10 REASONS WHY I DESPISE WAL-M@RT:

1. The aisles may be a little wider these days but it doesn't prevent people from going 3-wide with their carts and completely blocking oncoming traffic. All the while, they are pretending to care about the nutritional info on every box of food. In reality, it's just a conspiracy to prevent you from passing them and continuing your grocery shopping.

2. The hygeine items are always on the opposite end of the massive super-center from the food. Thus, I can park near the food section, walk to the hygeine items first and load up on body wash and toothpaste, walk 1/2 a mile back to the food and then realize I forgot the lotion. I shouldn't complain cause I do get a good amount of exercise this way.

3. The people who frequent this store think that the marketing campaign "rollback" prices means "roll" out of bed in your pajamas and go shopping. I've never seen so much spandex, flannel pj pants, head wraps or hole-filled smurf t-shirts in my life. Not that I judge people by their garb. Not me.

4. The little 7-ish-year-old kid in the shower curtain section today who gave me the "hood sign" (picture Sammy Sosa mixed with the girls from "Bring It On") while making eye contact and trying to challenge me to a game of chicken with his mom's shopping cart. Who's gonna turn first?!? It won't be me little Mr. G-man.

5. Inevitably it's sunny outside when I go in and then miraculously Noah calls out to God and starts the deluge of rain, lightning and thunder right as the cashier is scanning my items. And then I forget where I parked my car and end up walking around in ankle deep water in the parking lot...watching the dirty diapers that someone tossed out of their car float by.

6. The cashier, who is never in any kind of hurry to shorten the ever-growing line, pretends to be one of those people who are 3-wide in the cereal aisle who cares about the nutritional info on the box of all the food. But this time, she scans, reads the box of MY food, decides if she wants to ask me if it's good or not, then puts it on top of the bread or eggs that are in my bag.

7. The scooters. If you can walk from your car to the door without limping, breathing heavy or struggling in any way then you do NOT need one of the store's motorized scooters to do your shopping. In fact, you might benefit from the half mile back and forth between the food and hygeine products like me. And having 5 rambunctious kids under the age of 6 to run up and down the aisles and run in to people while you hit the gas and ignore them does NOT qualify you for a scooter either.

8. The self-checkout lane doesn't have an item limit. The store just assumes that people have common sense and won't choose the self-checkout if they have three carts full of stuff, one of which is produce. Please people. I just want to get my loaf of bread and go.

9. The swirly bagging station at the end of every checkout. This contraption requires that you remove your bags as they are filled and turned toward you. But without fail, the cashier bags the last few items on the belt, tells you your total, you swipe your card and pay and she keeps the last bag turned toward her so you can't grab it. Your choices are: 1) to look inside every bag on the carousel to make sure it's empty and turn it toward you yourself so you can grab the last bag 2) trust the cashier and let her go home with your hot dogs and ice cream or just toss those treasures that you paid for bag in the "go-backs" cart contributing to Mr. Sam's bottom line or 3) have faith in the cashier to turn the turn-style toward you and then keep your ears open when you are at least half way to the door and she starts screaming "Ma'am, ma'am!!! You forgot your bag!".

10. The people who choose to beat their children in the store. I'm sorry that little Bobby screamed for the swirling, light-up lollipop that the store has strategically placed right in the check-out lane to fulfill the inevitability of a tantrum. I'm sorry that Bobby didn't take you seriously when you told him no the first time. I'm sorry that you raised this little kid to disrespect you while your ho-ho's and miller lite's are being cha-chinged. Please don't hit your kids in Wal-M@rt. It doesn't teach them a lesson and just makes all of us feel like crud.

Soo....there you have it.

Disclaimer: I do have friends/family members who work or have worked at this store and am not insinuating that all employees, patrons act this way. Forgive me if this applies to you. Or don't.

Chapter #2

I started my new job on Monday and have doing all the classroom parts of nursing orientation all week long. It's actually more exhausting to me than patient care. I don't know why I just don't do sitting in a chair all day long very well. But it's a necessity and I completely understand and appreciate the purpose behind it all. I really do feel so very fortunate to have this job at a great hospital with a wonderful reputation, so close to home (it takes me less than 15 minutes from my door to the parking lot - with NO interstate), with great benefits and a real feeling that they believe in me and my ability to contribute something amazing to their team.

I guess pumping up your confidence is one of those things that's not on the agenda for orientation week but is a good side benefit.

And here it is...

my new home away from home and the place where I will build my future career. Right on. ;)

Jeff is a Wild Man

Dear Lily,
I'm happy to tell you that your Daddy is a wild man. One particularly nutty thing he has done during this wait for you is VOLUNTEER to ride a mechanical bull. Now we all know that your Daddy is not a teenager, not a cowboy and not a big fan of herding cattle. However, this activity appealed to him and he wanted to show the world what he is made of. So I present to you this video. He is a brave soul, isn't he?!? And he promises to do more wild things to entertain us in the future.

Love,

Your just-say-no-to-mechanical-bull-riding Mommy

A reminder of why I left Atlanta

Last week I had to make a quick day trip to Atlanta to go to the Department of Homeland Security and sign a declaration that I am truly not a criminal. All this because I now officially have no fingerprints left so they couldn't run me through the fingerprint database to verify said fact. Anyway...I had to meet face to face with the "Officer" who is responsible for issuing the approval for us to bring Lily in to the US. My appointment was at 10am and I took this picture at 10:15am. I sat in this blasted traffic for well over an hour trying to get in to the city. All the while I was having a mini panic attack in the car and texting Jason (my bro who lives in Atlanta) and he was searching the web for any info on what could be causing this mid-morning, atypical back-up.

While this experience was frustrating and I was a full hour late to my appointment, I did accomplish the mission and came home with an updated approval form. The sad part is that it expires before we will probably complete the adoption so a repeat of many fingerprinting appointments, home study update with medical clearance, references, social worker meetings and a billion notarized documents will have to be repeated ONE MORE TIME. Don't get me wrong. I'm not complaining. I know our sweet little one will be worth it all. Ten times over.

I'm a Haw

Several times in my career and life I've dealt with change. It's a theme in most people's lives and, in this economy, it is a given in the workplace. In the non-profit world that I was in for so many years, there was a tool that the leadership used to help staff understand and embrace change. I call this the "Cheese" book and it is about 4 characters and their approach to change. More specifically, it's an analogy on how these mouse-like and human-like characters make their way through a maze to reach their cheese.

Of these characters, I identify most as "Haw" and I have been driven to re-examine this as I have faced another job change. Yesterday I finished my first nursing job and I will be starting a new one next Monday in a hospital 60 miles closer to home with a schedule that works a little better for our lives and future. So...more about Haw. This is from Wikipedia and describes the character that I assign myself:

"Still fearful of his trek, Haw jots "What Would You Do If You Weren't Afraid?" on the wall and, after thinking about that, he begins his journey. Still plagued with worry (perhaps he has waited too long to begin his search...), Haw finds some scattered cheese that nourishes him and he is able to continue his search. Slowly losing his denial, Haw realizes that the cheese has not suddenly disappeared, but has dwindled from continual eating, and that the older cheese was not as tasty and had been moldy. After a letdown, an empty cheese station, Haw begins worrying about the unknown again. Brushing aside his fears, Haw's new mindset allows him to again enjoy life. He has even begun to smile again! He is realizing that "When you move beyond your fear, you feel free.""


So, in a nutshell. I have made a decision and am leaving a job that I do love and one that has taught me so much and re-affirmed my decision to change careers and become a nurse. I have met some great people, had some life-altering experiences and am now moving on to a new chapter. This chapter will require less of this:

And will lead me to a life that is better for Jeff and I and, ultimately, Lily. Of course, I have doubted myself every step of the way but now, it is what it is and I have 5 days off to get myself psyched for what is surely the job that I will be in when my dreams come true.

I would wait forever

I would wait forever to hold you
In my heart, I know you
You are a part of me, as I am you
More than life, I know this is true.

I will overcome the depths of grief
And release it from my heart
I will reach out my aching arms
And offer you a brand new start.

I will build you the perfect home
For your sweet head to rest
I will fix all the broken pieces
And promise for you, just the best.

Tell you the story that brought me to you
The destiny that God put in place
You were mine from the start of time
In my best dreams, I saw your face.

I will cry a little less
Laugh a little more
Work a little harder
Open every door.

For you I will sacrifice
Learn how to endure
Because you, my child
Are worth all of that and more

I will show you the beauty of the world
Give you all you need to grow
Feel pride and joy as as you mature
And in to that world you go.

I would wait forever to hold you
In my heart, I know you
You are a part of me, as I am you
More than life, I know this is true.

P205/55/R16

The excitement never ends around here, I tell you. My poor car has been through so much and it has been talking to me lately. It says "clunk, clunk, pa-clunk". My translator tells me that this means it needs a couple of new shoes.

Since it has been my trusty companion through 140 miles of commuting back and forth to Tuscaloosa every day, it's time to spring for some. I started this adventure yesterday with Dad on the phone searching for tire reviews on line. Today...it continues.

So what things are important?? All season? Speed rating? Brand? Warranty? I may be able to change a tire but choose one...maybe not so much.

Hopefully by the end of the day today, my ride will be outfitted with some new shiny, un-clunk-worthy wheels. What a Saturday ;).

Birthday Boy

Happy birthday to my sweet hubby and Lily's daddy-to-be!!

(When I can get him to pose for a picture, he does the face smooshing...cute, huh?!?!)

The "Fever" - I've got it bad

One little innocent stop at Target this morning turned in to a major baby shopping urge. It was innocent, I tell you. Before passing judgment on my impulsiveness, know that I did not actually purchase these items but some of them were on SALE so I can't promise anything for the period of the near future. Who can live without a jogging stroller?!?
For real...we are kind of runners in this household and we want the wee one to partake in this healthy habit rather than us use her as an excuse to become sendentary, right?!?

And we STILL haven't bought a crib. We were going to hold off on our referral in case we were referred a 4 year old but, really, we are going to need one. And we can take the practical approach by getting one that converts to a day bed, full size bed in the future. This one is kinda nice.

And I'm still on the carseat kick. I definitely want a good, safe carseat and Jeff reminded me that we will need 2 of them. Mostly I took these pictures so I could look up reviews and make some educated decisions...but I appreciate you accompanying me on my pseudo-Target baby binge. :)

Baby Purchase - Ergo

I did it!! I ordered the Ergo. This is, by far, the highest rated baby carrier that I have seen and it is suitable for all kids...big and little. It also allows the baby to be on your back or facing you in the front. For attachment and bonding issues, that face to face contact will be uber important for us.

I have known that it was going to be on my purchase list but it is not cheap so I was holding off. With referral most likely less than a year away, I decided that now is the time to start making some of the purchases I've planned (especially before I change jobs in the next month - another post to come).

So I did my search this morning looking for a color that is neither girl nor boy, although we are 95% sure our little one will be a girl, one that Jeff will not be embarrassed to sport since he needs to be willing to tote the toddler too and one that won't be destroyed by goopy secretions or spilled juice. This dark chocolate color won out on most fronts so it is on it's way to us. If you see me wearing this filled with some stuffed animals or cantaloupes, please don't burst my bubble. I'm just a practicing mama daydreaming about my baby girl.

The Caramel Cake from H-E-double hockey sticks

I confess... I am no domestic diva. However, a couple weeks ago I had a patient who's wife who was kind enough to tell me all about these yummy treats she bakes and I had to go and tell her that I have been trying to make a home-made cake like my mother-in-law's since the dawn of time. In an effort to get me on Jeff's good side, she gave me this recipe for her caramel cake. It was scrawled in typical squiggly old lady handwriting so I knew it would be evil. Of course the 6 eggs, 8 2/3 cups of sugar (between cake and icing) and 4 sticks of butter didn't help.

So a little flour on the flour and Jeff licking the bowl later we had this...

Not the prettiest cake ever but I think it is delish. I know this because every time I go in the kitchen I cut myself a "bite" because a "bite" is never as bad for you as just cutting a piece and eating it straight. So now I have a sugar high, half of a great caramel cake in the kitchen and a husband with a sore belly.

And just in case anyone wants to give it a whirl, here's the recipe:

Cream Caramel Cake

Ingredients:
2 sticks butter (softened)
3 cups sugar
6 eggs
2 2/3 cups all purpose flour
¼ tsp baking soda
½ tsp salt
1 8oz container sour cream
1 TBS vanilla

Directions:
Cream butter and sugar until fluffy. Add eggs one at a time. Sift flour, baking soda and salt together. Add flour mixture and sour cream to butter/sugar alternating flour and sour cream. Add vanilla. Pour in to 3 layer pans. Bake 20-25 minutes at 325 degrees. Remove from oven and cool in pan 10 minutes. Stack with caramel icing.

Caramel Icing

Ingredients:
1 sticks butter
2 cups light brown sugar
½ cup evaporated milk
½ tsp vanilla
4 cups powdered sugar

Directions:
Melt butter in a pan, add brown sugar and milk. Cook 2 minutes over medium heat, stirring constantly. When it first begins to boil, remove from heat and add vanilla. Pour over powdered sugar. Beat until smooth. Let cool slightly. Frost layers, top and sides of cake.

Road Trip Chattanooga

Jeff and I took a little trip to Chattanooga this weekend and had a great time. It was so nice to just get away and do some exploring. Chattanooga is a beautiful city with lots to do, lots of great restaurants and coffee shops and some fantastic sights to see. I think we'll be going back some day since we didn't get a chance to go to the TN Aquarium. Maybe, just maybe, the next time we go we will have a wee one with us to ogle at the seahorses and belugas.

We did get to go see Rock City which is located on Lookout Mountain...where there is a point that overlooks seven states. Don't ask me which ones they are ;). We also went to Ruby Falls which is located inside a mountain...a waterfall inside a mountain. Absolutely beautiful and an amazing creation of nature. I would highly suggest both of these places for a nice day outside.

Chattanooga

Here is an album of pictures from my phone ( just click on the pic above). We have pictures on the camera but they will be delayed cause we (or I) lost the battery charger.

We're cozy at home now gearing up for a busy work week.

Less than 60 days

The next round of referrals is out and it appears that China covered 6 more days of LID's this month (6 days last month too). This gives us 58 (yes 5-8) LID days ahead of ours. That is less than 60. I don't know why that feels great to type but it does. For full stats, see the box on the right (CCAA and Rumor Queen). If they could only just do at least 6 days worth of referrals every month then we would have a picture of our baby in less than 10 months. Oh my goodness, oh my goodness.

The Mac-Daddy of all car seats

As I sense our referral inching closer, I find myself wandering the aisles of Target (or other stores) assessing the baby necessities...including carseats. This is one thing that I have read you should absolutely not skimp on and I plan to do it up right when the time comes to make a purchase. After all, we haven't waited years and years to be parents to put our wee one in any kind of danger in the car or otherwise.

So today while wandering, I came across this entire display advertising this mac-daddy of car seats which is not only safe but actually has side impact air cushion protection. It actually has little air bags on the side of where the little one's head would be. Pretty cool, huh?!?
It is pretty costly but, as I said before, this is one item that we will break the bank on. Right now, I have it narrowed to this one or a Britax model. One thing that I have found in the reviews that make this a good option is that it can be rear facing for a child up to 40 lbs...and rear-facing car seats provide the most protection in a crash. I hate to say it but if you have ridden in a car with my husband, then this would be muy importante.

Perfect 10

Just a random observation... Jeff and I were running the other day (we have been really good with this lately) and I happened to notice in our shadows that we were shaped like one of my favorite numbers - 10. I will let you guess who was the 1 and who was the 0.

Ha ha.

Bloggy Absence

I have been taking a little breather from blogging lately but I'm back. I guess I can attribute my absence to the treachery of working night shift. That really plays with your mind, I'll tell you. But now...I'm switching back to day shift starting tomorrow and I'm counting on getting my life and sanity back. Not to mention that I am completely convinced now that we will have our baby girl home in the next year. Don't use that conviction against me if it doesn't happen but I do believe we will be celebrating our last Easter basket-less this year. And I'm hoping all of our friends and family will be around next year to play bunny and revel in little girl giggles.

Some other things that have been going on:

Mom and Dad were here for 2 weeks and, although we didn't get to spend a whole lot of time together, I am reminded how much I treasure my folks. They are incredible.

I have been listening to podcasts, audiobooks and tons of NPR stuff on my iPod while commuting and have some reviews to post at some point. If you want a good chick-audio book, I would recommend The Help. It was a thought provoker for me.

Breslie and I spent the day together yesterday getting eyebrow waxed, having lunch and craft shopping. I miss my sis. Hopefully we can do more together with my new schedule.

Jeff and I are starting to run again and it's going pretty well. We are just up to 2 miles but my body is remembering how great it felt to put one foot in front of the other and cleanse myself, mind and body. While running is super hard on my knees, it is so incredible for my state of mind and I am hoping to keep it up through the summer. We are looking for some 5K's to break back in to the racing mode too.

I have lost almost 25 lbs out of my 40 lb goal. One positive about working nights is that there is no time to eat. Hopefully I can keep up my momentum while I shake things up a bit. It doesn't hurt that I now have Mom and Dad's elliptical in my basement calling to me every spare minute. I have used it A LOT and love having the convenience of some hard core cardio right here in my house.

I haven't seen any of my friends in MONTHS. That will hopefully be remedied soon as well.

Where are my nephew dogs? I need some play time with both of them. And they need to meet each other.

Ok that's it for now. I am going to find some pics to post too since I have taken such a huge blog vacation. I know I have to have some stored up somewhere.

2010 Snow Day

We had lots of snow (for Alabama standards) on Friday. It was supposed to be 1-3 inches but I think we got a bit more than that. I was off work so I kind of hunkered down at the house. And made a tiny sad snowman...
It was a Winter Wonderland. I have honestly never seen it like this here before. It was pretty but a pain for an area that doesn't have the infrastructure to support winter weather. In fact, Jeff was mandated to spend the night at the hospital because they felt he might not be able to make it back if there were to be an emergency. So he spent the evening in the Cath Lab waiting room with his buddy, Mr. TV and then tried to sleep on a stretcher. He made it home Saturday morning but was pretty pooped.

And because she is never far from our thoughts, I had to memorialize this snowstorm for our little girl-to-be. I wish she was here to make snowmen and have snowball fights with us. I can just imagine her in her little puffy snowsuit giggling and making a snow angel.

Someday....I hope.We are supposed to get some more snow tonight and I have to work so I am taking extra scrubs and Weight Watchers food because it's a pretty safe bet that I will be stuck at the hospital until my shift Monday night. Hopefully I can get a room at the hospital's hotel or else I will be begging for a stretcher too. This snow stuff is pretty and all but I am so ready for the warmth and sunny skies to return.